Friday, November 03, 2006

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Finding your soulmate: Is it a mission impossible?



Will I ever find my soulmate? Is there a perfect soulmate somewhere for me? I often heard this questions which surpasses from every generation in finding someone to whom we feel constantly connected and personal relationship with. Being in a relationship is a challenging yet dramatic one. Just as what we see in the movie, read in novels, it is just a series of ups and down situation, a climax and an end. Many relationships end up nothing, why? Were we mistaken? Was that person not our soulmate? Or we just cant able to make things work out?

I had been in a relationship that for me, perhaps the man to share my whole life with but eventually as the relationship goes on I found it not productive and somewhat possessive. I was just dreaming of a perfect relationship just like some fairy tales do. “And they live happily ever after,” but in reality, it is not like that.

Most relationship does not work out because we are finding for something best, an ideal partner and ideal relationship. We are creating our soulmate relationship in the future today. In a loving relationship, both persons have a positive reception for individual differences and needs. If troubles occur, nurture the relationship, correspond always, and be patience. If mutual efforts and counseling is done to make the relationship harmonious but still does not work out? Then, don’t stick on it! It’s not anymore healthy to pursue a relationship like that. It will not improve you as a person. A major key to a healthy relationship is to see the holiness in each other. Relationship which is based on physical attraction, need and money issues will sooner or later break- ups will occur. Every relationship serves a purpose and must be treasured for it will give us spiritual growth. We should be thankful for the experiences we had in a relationship which able us learn from it.

I believe with this phrase in a poem by William Earnest Henley, “I am the captain of my fate; I am the master of my soul”. The circumstances we are in correspond to every action we do in life. Life is what we make it. We are the author of our destiny to create a relationship we want in every new possibilities we imagine. To make it more romantic and with intense intimacy not just what we see in movies but a relationship which is bonded spiritually with love. For me, finding your soulmate is just like finding your special someone. This soulmate experience offers us a chance to start with romantic love and nourish in our hearts and spirits towards something higher. It is not impossible but rather thinks of some possibilities to meet some people to share your life with, be it for friendship or marriage.

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A love story






There’s only one good thing about breaking up and that’s making up, especially during the holidays. Why do people fall in love and the end up crying? Breaking up is something like untying a rope to a tree; breaking a glass or tearing a piece of paper. Being meant to be in a relationship in spite of the obstacle the couple encounter is not possible so long if any of them will do the first move to initiate the make up. If love is still prevailing, why not cope up the lost time?
I will share to you the love story of my friend. I had known this relationship because I was the “sumbungan” of their happy and sad memories of their relationship.

THE BREAK-UP:


Looking back, I know that I freaked out; I became a commitment-phobe,’ says 25-year-old Samantha. After she graduated from college in 2002, Samantha returned home to- leaving behind Dave, her boyfriend of two years. ” Dave still had another year of school left,’ says Samantha. “We were totally in love, and I tried very hard to do the long- distance- relationship thing- we would see each other almost every weekend. But eventually we got so caught up in our own lives that we practically stopped talking.”
After a series of strained phone conversations, Samantha and Dave ended their relationship. Determined to make the most of her new freedom, Samantha began to date “a lot”, but she couldn’t stop thinking about Dave. No matter how many dinner dates she laughed through, he was on her mind: “I kept asking myself, how I could have let him go?’
The breakup wasn’t easy for Dave either. “When we ended, I was so upset, “remembers Dave, 24. “I missed Samantha terribly, but there was nothing I could do. She was in Cagayan; I was in Manila. I just had to get on with my life.”


THE MAKE-UP:

When Dave graduated a year later, he moved to Cebu City. Unknown to him, Samantha had also moved to the city to pursue her medical course. Then at 7:00 on New Year’s morning, Samantha received a call that made her heart sink. Her best friend was phoning to say that she had been to a bar the night before and had bumped into Dave- with his new girlfriend, a beautiful blond. “When my friend told me she saw Dave with another girl, I cried my eyes out and called him immediately, “Samantha recounts. “ It was vey weird. I cried even more on the phone. I just missed him so much.”
Understandably, Dave had his reservations. “I didn’t want to get hurt,” he says, “but I couldn’t not see her.” He agreed to meet Samantha for a holiday drink.
Samantha recalls her feelings when she met Dave again: “I felt like someone had kicked me in the stomach. My hands were shaking. The conversation was very awkward. We were both trying to pretend that life over the past year had been great, when in truth we were both hiding a lot of sadness.” But says Samantha with a big grin, “A couple of drinks were just like old times again.”
The evening ended with a good-night kiss, and they quickly picked up their relationship where they’d left off. “We fell in love all over again,” Dave says. “That was two years ago. Now. I can’t imagine life without her.” And that other blond? Promptly banished to Christmas past.

I just cross the bridge when I get there


I just cross the bridge when I get there”…this is the most likely quote I always remember when facing with a lot of issues in my life: boredom, battle of the heart, financial crisis, self enlightenment and a lot more.When problem arises, I used to situate it like crossing a bridge, I don’t know what lies ahead of me there but for sure I want to cross it to reach my destination. I know there’s been an obstacle along the way: fear, discouragement, oppression, battles etc. but inspite of that I am willing to pursue my goal. Sometimes, when problem arises along the way, I think of the other way….not to pass through, I tried to swim down the river but It was nearest to my grave and beside I don’t know how to swim….hehehehe.So I went back and follow the trail.Beyond the distance, I could see some of my friends waving at me, some are yelling, shouting with envy.Inspite of that…I kept on walking until I reach nearly to my santuary…but it never ends there….I should have to run with perseverance because there’s a lot of bridge that I will pass through….Hahay!!!That’s life it would be…crossing a bridge I’m on my way!!!