Showing posts with label healthy relationship tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label healthy relationship tips. Show all posts

Thursday, February 24, 2011

How to Deal on Your New Relationship




Communicate. It is the communication that bridges two people, community, nation and the world together. So just like how people in the world communicate, make a way on how you can constantly communicate with your better half. By doing this, you are creating an unseen path between the two of you, a path that cannot be easily broken. When communicating, make sure that you are sincere with every word that will come out from your mouth. Be sincere enough by looking in your partner's eye whether you are listening or the one talking. With constant communication, you are gaining the relationship back to how it looks like before, fresh and always inviting.
Enjoy your time together. Time is a valuable thing a couple could have, so make the most out of it. Never waste time whenever you’re together, make use of every single minute in the clock by making your better half happy. Make laughter one of the active ingredients of your relationships. A humorous talk everyday while doing things together will ignite that magnet with your better half to stick with you forever.
You are in it. Yes, and it is called "relationship". The Relationship involves two people who are madly in love with each other, people who want to share the same thoughts and lives together. You are not alone; you and your better half are teammates, love mates who will face all the struggles and happiness ahead. Together holding each other hand tight, make an unbreakable connection with your partner. Never work alone, instead work together.
Respect differences. Different people have different attitude, hobbies, likes and perception towards things. Give yourselves a time to enrich yourself as an individual and let your partner enjoy whatever he wants to do as long as it is not affecting your relationship or hurting you. By giving yourself some time, you can give a lot more to your partner.
Make fun of your little argue; don’t take it seriously because this somehow stimulates the relationship to be healthy. Little argues serves as your outlet to let negative things flush out in the relationship. Some frustrations and discontentment bring the two of you to the closer core because you are able to understand more. Just make sure to make up right away and not to let the day pass by over little argues.
Stay the same. The time you fell in love with each other was the most beautiful day so keep it going. Continue your night dates, dinner together, notes, gifts and how you spent time together. Things like these revive and enlighten the life of the relationship making it very fresh and young. Be yourself as always and never change the way you are to yourself, to your partner and to the rest of the world.


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Friday, November 09, 2007

10 tips to keep respect in your relationship

1. Texting instead of sending a birthday card is not a goer. It generally tells your partner that you actually forgot their big day, and are sending a text to pretend that you haven't. Is your life really that busy?

2.Not only failing to hold a door open but actually letting it slam behind you in your partner's face is never on, no matter how much of a rush you are in. Even worse, is not saying thank you when someone holds the door open for you.

3.Email greetings cards are fine to friends if you put a bit of effort into them (ie: not the freebies you get on a Google search) but unless your significant other is miles from home with only an internet connection for company, it really does show a shocking lack of thoughtfulness.

4.Eating the last chocolate in the box without consulting your partner is unwise - if it also happens to be their favorite, it's unforgivable.

5.Rushing ahead to bag the window seat on a train, 'plane or bus before offering it to your partner could lead to an abrupt end to your relationship.

6.When it's raining, hogging the umbrella to the extent that your partner is left uncovered and soaked is not very considerate. Cuddle up, or you might find it's not just the umbrella that is left surplus to requirements.

7.Drivers who repeatedly park the car so they have loads of room to exit the vehicle, whilst their partner must squeeze like a contortionist to get out, deserve have not just their car keys confiscated, but their relationship too.

8.Taping over or deleting your partner's favorite programmes from your Sky+ planner in order to make room for your own, is not just lacking in chivalry, it's just plain mean!

9.The definition of a swine is a one who hogs the remote control 24/7, especially if they go to the extent of actually taking it off their partner when they enter the room.

10.Insisting your partner always goes to the bar to get the drinks in, especially when you're out in a big group with most of your mates, is not just tight, it's rude!
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