How to Make a Memorable Love Letter

With the countless technologies offered today, who still knows how to write a romantic love letter? For sure some would prefer to buy an instant love letter card at the bookstore because of their hectic schedule. But no matter how busy you may be, there are still ways on how you can easily and instantly write a romantic love letter for your love to maintain the connection alive.

Write like a child. Children are honest and pure, they speak straight from their hearts which melts our hearts whenever we received a letter from them. You don’t have to use a dictionary in doing so, purely organize your thoughts, and easily write down what is at the bottom of your heart. Nothing will beat the power of honesty and sincerity; it is still the best way to win someone's heart.

Be Unique. Though there are millions of love letters that you can find online, don’t copy it. Your words and thoughts are still the most romantic and most beautiful your love would want to hear. Be unique in your own way, bear in mind that once you make a love letter, you let your heart speak, you let a part of your romantic side revealed.

Grocer's List. You do not have to worry if you are not into writing, in writing love letters you do not have to be that formal and strict. Your writing must be free and romantic, if you do not know how to start your letter, begin it with a list of the qualities you appreciate so much. Just like when the grocer's list, a checklist of all the good qualities even the not so good can be counted as long as you will justify and still reason out why you love him for that.

Work on the Letter itself. Make sure to make it look special for your loved one. Use materials that worth using for, a letter with a beautiful cover and package in all will surely be memorable so grab it on. Also, check your wordings, make sure that the whole package will please one's eye and melt one's heart.

Love poems and songs. You can begin your love letter with a poem from one of your favorites or a part of a song the two of you would like to hear often. Choose a romantic line and dedicate it to her, choose proper words that would rhyme in the end, these are the lines that make the poem beautiful so work on it.

Reading List:
Love Letters In The Sand
Literary Love-Letters and Other Stories
66 Love Letters: A Conversation with God That Invites You into His Story
98 Love Letters That Will Bring You to Your Knees: Poems and Love Letters of Great Men and Women
The World's Most Romantic Love Letters

How to Say Sorry in Unique Ways

Just like in any story, your love story will surely get to the point where the two of you will have some misunderstanding and awkward moment together. First we must learn to accept relationships will always get to its low points and that is when you can no longer fix things with your significant other. The question is how do you get back on track?

Below are the ways on how you can apologize dearly and sincerely:

Let your heart speak. Let her know how sincere you are with your apology. Show that you understand what is happening and you have accepted everything that happened will pave the way for the two of you to go well together. Saying the words that will comfort how she feels is the best thing a man can do for her woman.

Write it down. If you cannot say sorry personally, then you can simply write it down to express what you feel. Through this, you can also share some insights that you cannot say personally. Write it all down and let the power of your handwritten change the mood of your loved one.

If you know how to bake, then do it. Bake a small cake for your significant other and decorate it with "I’m sorry" and "I love you". This will surely melt his heart and surely he will forget the reasons why you are asking for an apology.

Take her to your place. Treat her or take her to your favorite place together. With this, she can easily forget what happened and just remembered all your sweet times together.

Get purple hyacinths. This is the best flower if you would like to say sorry to your significant other. You can give it to her personally while waiting for her in the office or you can simply put it in her bed while she's sleeping. A study shows that purple color emblems the message "let us forget the sadness and move on to happiness".

Sing her a song. If you have to sing just to get her full acceptance on your apology, then do it. There's nothing wrong hitting all those notes, just make sure that you have at least rehearse so you may sound good. You don’t have to sing like Barry Manilow to win her heart; you just have to sing what's in your heart.

No matter what caused the mess between the two of you, the solution is for the two of you to always think that... “It is not how you mess up with each other, it is how you fix things and decide to be together again, forever.”

Reading List:

• I Don't Know How to Say I'm Sorry
• This is Just to Say: Poems of Apology and Forgiveness
• Heartfelt Ways to Say I'm Sorry (Heartfelt Ways to Say...Series)
• I'm Sorry You Feel That Way: The Astonishing but True Story of a Daughter, Sister, Slut, Wife, Mother, andFriend to Man and Dog
• I Did It, I'm Sorry (Picture Puffins)

How to Maintain the Connection Alive

Below are the ways on how you can easily boost up the love again in your relationship:

Don’t Forget Your Love Note. Yes, simple notes are quite romantic, especially for girls who love to read love letter notes from their man. These have not to be that long, a simple 3 sentences note will surely make her day.

Keep Walking. Get sometime where the two of you can walk together at night while holding each other's hand. This will surely boost the conversation between the two of you. While walking, try to talk about some things you have been up to lately, talk about anything and enjoy your walk.

Spend quality time with her. Get to know the real deal of vacation by going out with your significant other on weekends. Make sure to focus on your vacation alone. Try not to take your tech gadgets with you, just the two of you alone, with this you will surely enjoy time with each other.

Breakfast in Bed. Make each morning romantics by preparing breakfast in bed meal ahead of your significant other. With a simple rose in bed and a yummy meal, you'll surely have a blast of love in the morning.

File up your Song Pick Together. Make a list and compile your songs together, get to know all her favorites and compile it in a disc player with your all time favorite songs. With this, you can create a real love song deal through your love and yours song pick.

This may be a little too hard especially if you are into writing but this will surely melt her heart, make a poem for her and show her how you deeply love her through rhyming words. Simple things like this may look small but extra large at heart.

Go for a sunset together. Watch the sunset together and make sure to hold each other hand while the sun bids goodbye for the day. This would mean that you will be with her through the days and nights of her life, that the two of you will be together forever.

Make her feel proud and compliment her good deeds. Make her feel that you are very proud of her with the things she did. Remember to be true and sincere in everything you say or do. By doing this, you are showing the importance of appreciation that will surely help her gain more self confidence.

How You Can Simply Make Him Fall

Learn how to listen. Though women love talking, have time to listen to his stories, his strengths and weaknesses, his dreams and his heart. Listen attentively to win his confidence.

Throw some of your emotional baggage and live life lightly. Men would not want to be with a dramatic woman, they love to be with a real woman.

To win a man's heart is through his stomach, so know how to cook some dishes for him. Your mom will surely love to teach you how you can cook his favorite recipe for the man you love. Know how and watch him fall for you.

Live it Up. Men would love to be with a woman who has a set of interests. It would be interesting if you can come up with things you love because apparently you will end up loving. Always remember that people see you the way you see yourself, so don’t waste your time and live your life happily.

Be intelligent, men would like to be with someone who has a good sense of humor and knows the how to of life. In case you are, then be careful not to be boastful because this makes the off moment, for men do not like boastful women.

Feel the beauty within you. How you see yourself reflected on how other people see you so it is very important to look at your own beauty and let the good chi come out and reign over your whole character. Having a beauty that can never be broken by age or any cosmetics is the most valuable beauty in the world.

Get deeper into conversation with him. This will help the two of you especially if you are still in the "getting to know stage". Knowing the type of person he is, is one of the essentials of getting to this stage. Through this, you could have an inner view of the way he was raised; moreover get to know to the roots of his being.

Art of Communication. Make sure to use every day to express your care and love for him. I'm not saying to make it obvious right away, make him feel that you are always there for him and that there is always someone she can count on. A simple effort on knowing how his day was, is a good move already.Just remember not to ask too much because this is awkward for women, he might think that you are stalking even the two of you are just about getting to know stage.Give honest and sincere compliments.

Men like direct and true compliments, so be true in everything you say and do. Just make sure to say it only and just when you mean it. Know when to throw the punch lines that will turn him on, say something like "I love it when you smile and giggles", this will surely create a magnet between the two of you.

10 tips to keep respect in your relationship

1. Texting instead of sending a birthday card is not a goer. It generally tells your partner that you actually forgot their big day, and are sending a text to pretend that you haven't. Is your life really that busy?

2.Not only failing to hold a door open but actually letting it slam behind you in your partner's face is never on, no matter how much of a rush you are in. Even worse, is not saying thank you when someone holds the door open for you.

3.Email greetings cards are fine to friends if you put a bit of effort into them (ie: not the freebies you get on a Google search) but unless your significant other is miles from home with only an internet connection for company, it really does show a shocking lack of thoughtfulness.

4.Eating the last chocolate in the box without consulting your partner is unwise - if it also happens to be their favorite, it's unforgivable.

5.Rushing ahead to bag the window seat on a train, 'plane or bus before offering it to your partner could lead to an abrupt end to your relationship.

6.When it's raining, hogging the umbrella to the extent that your partner is left uncovered and soaked is not very considerate. Cuddle up, or you might find it's not just the umbrella that is left surplus to requirements.

7.Drivers who repeatedly park the car so they have loads of room to exit the vehicle, whilst their partner must squeeze like a contortionist to get out, deserve have not just their car keys confiscated, but their relationship too.

8.Taping over or deleting your partner's favorite programmes from your Sky+ planner in order to make room for your own, is not just lacking in chivalry, it's just plain mean!

9.The definition of a swine is a one who hogs the remote control 24/7, especially if they go to the extent of actually taking it off their partner when they enter the room.

10.Insisting your partner always goes to the bar to get the drinks in, especially when you're out in a big group with most of your mates, is not just tight, it's rude!

Finding your soulmate: Is it a mission impossible?

Will I ever find my soul mate? Is there a perfect soul mate somewhere for me? I often heard these questions which surpasses from every generation in finding someone to whom we feel constantly connected and personal relationship with. Being in a relationship is a challenging yet dramatic one. Just as what we see in the movie, read in novels, it is just a series of ups and down situation, a climax and an end. Many relationships end up nothing, why? Were we mistaken? Was that person not our soul mate  Or we just can't able to make things work out?

I had been in a relationship that for me, perhaps the man to share my whole life with but eventually as the relationship goes on I found it not productive and somewhat possessive. I was just dreaming of a perfect relationship just like some fairy tales do. “And they live happily ever after,” but in reality, it is not like that.

Most relationship do not work out because we are finding for something best, an ideal partner and ideal relationship. 

We are creating our soul mate relationship in the future today. In a loving relationship, both persons have a positive reception for individual differences and needs. If troubles occur, nurture the relationship, correspond always, and be patience. If mutual efforts and counseling are done to make the relationship harmonious but still does not work out? Then, don’t stick with it! It’s not anymore healthy to pursue a relationship like that. It will not improve you as a person. A major key to a healthy relationship is to see the holiness in each other. 

A relationship which is based on physical attraction, need and money issues will sooner or later break- ups will occur. Every relationship serves a purpose and must be treasured for it will give us spiritual growth. We should be thankful for the experiences we had in a relationship which able we learn from it.

I believe with this phrase in a poem by William Earnest Henley, “I am the captain of my fate; I am the master of my soul”. The circumstances we are in correspond to every action we do in life. Life is what we make it. 

We are the author of our destiny to create a relationship we want in every new possibilities we imagine. To make it more romantic and with intense intimacy not just what we see in movies but a relationship which is bonded spiritually with love. For me, finding your soul mate has been just like finding your special someone. This soul mate experience offers us a chance to start with romantic love and nourish in our hearts and spirits towards something higher. It is not impossible but rather thinks of some possibilities to meet some people to share your life with, be it for friendship or marriage.

We can create a soul mate experience today and obtain the positive benefits of this connection forever more. For those who want to love genuinely and passionately, start finding your soul mate now!

A love story

There’s only one good thing about breaking up and that’s making up, especially during the holidays. Why do people fall in love and the end up crying? Breaking up is something like untying a rope to a tree; breaking a glass or tearing a piece of paper. Being meant to be in a relationship in spite of the obstacle the couple encounter is not possible so long if any of them will do the first move to initiate the make up. If love is still prevailing, why not cope up the lost time? I will share to you the love story of my friend. I had known this relationship because I was the “sumbungan” of their happy and sad memories of their relationship.

THE BREAK-UP:
“Looking back, I know that I freaked out; I became a commitment-phobe,’ says 25-year-old Samantha. After she graduated from college in 2002, Samantha returned home to- leaving behind Dave, her boyfriend of two years. ” Dave still had another year of school left,’ says Samantha. “We were totally in love, and I tried very hard to do the long- distance- relationship thing- we would see each other almost every weekend. But eventually we got so caught up in our own lives that we practically stopped talking.”
After a series of strained phone conversations, Samantha and Dave ended their relationship. Determined to make the most of her new freedom, Samantha began to date “a lot”, but she couldn’t stop thinking about Dave. No matter how many dinner dates she laughed through, he was on her mind: “I kept asking myself, how I could have let him go?’
The breakup wasn’t easy for Dave either. “When we ended, I was so upset, “remembers Dave, 24. “I missed Samantha terribly, but there was nothing I could do. She was in Cagayan; I was in Manila. I just had to get on with my life.”


THE MAKE-UP:

When Dave graduated a year later, he moved to Cebu City. Unknown to him, Samantha had also moved to the city to pursue her medical course. Then at 7:00 on New Year’s morning, Samantha received a call that made her heart sink. Her best friend was phoning to say that she had been to a bar the night before and had bumped into Dave- with his new girlfriend, a beautiful blond. “When my friend told me she saw Dave with another girl, I cried my eyes out and called him immediately, “Samantha recounts. “ It was vey weird. I cried even more on the phone. I just missed him so much.”
Understandably, Dave had his reservations. “I didn’t want to get hurt,” he says, “but I couldn’t not see her.” He agreed to meet Samantha for a holiday drink.
Samantha recalls her feelings when she met Dave again: “I felt like someone had kicked me in the stomach. My hands were shaking. The conversation was very awkward. We were both trying to pretend that life over the past year had been great, when in truth we were both hiding a lot of sadness.” But says Samantha with a big grin, “A couple of drinks were just like old times again.”
The evening ended with a good-night kiss, and they quickly picked up their relationship where they’d left off. “We fell in love all over again,” Dave says. “That was two years ago. Now. I can’t imagine life without her.” And that other blond? Promptly banished to Christmas past.